WELL I DID POST THIS ON friday BUT FOR SOME REASON NEVER CAME ON.
Well thursday i turn up at work and get blamed for something i didnt do it was the boss but she blamed me but i had to ring andrew as my leg was agony (siatika sorry cant spell it well it was ok in the morning but when this happened at work it went awfull and andy had to bring me some tablets and then friday again she tried to blame me and i think as she give me this job to take all the blame well i am not doing it so she said to me i have brought my comp in for picking up cause it broke and they dont know when but she was going in a meeting at 1.30 and i finish at 2 and i said i am going dead on 2 cause it my sons plays and i am going to miss 10 mins anyway cause only finish at 2 and she said well u do know u have to stop if i am in a meeting and i have had enough of her taking me for granted i stop every day till 3 without pay and i go in at 7 and only get paid from 8 so i said no i stop if it work related your computer has nothing to do with work and walked away. am i mean or what cause i think i am in the right here but anyway my leg came back again has anyone with this found that happens.
Had daniel at emergency this morning his ashma is playing up again it only couple week since he was there it is just not settling at all so he give him another inhaler and i am to go back docs lookwhat he needs long term.
He goes away with school monday dreading it with him being of side and last time he went away it was awfull gosh why do they have to grow up lol.

Thanks amanda love.
I love how they say sitting makes it worse gosh i wish i had chance to sit down in the day, i start at 7 and i dont get to sit down till i do tea and i dont get a break at work all day neather so i daught that could be causeing my pain.
I some times wonder how i do it too.
love Txxx

no alls they do is dish out tablets, i am starting to relise thats all that doctors surgery do, i have made an appointment to see the head doctor when i off work at xmas to see what he will do cause getting nothing from the other 2.
you right i could do with time off work, finish friday for two week so have a break then and even my husband has said that if i dont get any problems when off with wrists or legs then there are more important things than work, i have been with him 15 years and in all that time he has never once said anything like that but he said if it making me ill it not worth it, which i did find sweet (then he said can i have a £10 so i had to laugh at that lol men.)
love Txxx

Hi Tina, sorry about your boss, she sounds a nightmare. I think when you are accomodating, they take you for granted. Have you tried a hot water bottle for your sciatica, I find it helps a little.

Go back to the gp about Daniels asthma, they can refer them to a specialist. My Dans asthma is so well controlled now, he plays for a footie team!! When he was first referred he couldn't even go outside if it was cold or damp else it brought on a severe attack!!

I hope you can get something sorted about work, you don't need to be working extra all the time, you have to think of yourself!!

Deb x

well my baby has gone on the school trip, spoke to head and she has ashma so knows what to do, told her we can pick up if he needs to be,
his birthday tomorrow and he not here but i bet he not bothered bet he having the time of his life.This cold is not helping my wrist any, i have a meeting with the head doctor at my surgery next week,
wish me luck
love Txxxx

Good news Tina re the head doctor. Write all your symptoms down, even the ones that are not so bothersome at the moment. If the pain comes and then goes from anywhere eg a joint, then write it down. Scribble as you remember throughout the week then write it into 'bullet points' before the appointment. This is a good opportunity so use the time to tell it as it really is!!!!!

I am sure that Dan is having a great time and his birthday would have been made memorable just by the fact of being away.

Good luck,

Eleanor x

Hi Tina

So sorry to read that both you and your husband are unwell, and you are having problems at your work, surely if you are working extra hours then being abused by your boss this is abuse of position, and it needs to be sorted, do you have a union rep, as for the sciatica can you not force your Gp to send your husband for Physiotherapy, or do you have a Gp whose attitude is keep taking the pills and "don't rock the boat" Kind, I know there is a lot of them about.

Take care

Albertxxxxx

Hi Tina

Sorry you have to put up with such a mean boss, it's something you could do without. Good for you for standing up for yourself at last, it really does sound as though she takes you for granted. And yes, it wouldn't surprise me if the extra stress is aggravating the sciatica, which in itself is awful, I know.

Dan will have a wonderful time, as you know, but that doesn't stop you worrying and missing him. Never mind, he'll soon be home.

Take care

Anthea x

Take care Tina, and if you are not in a union then citizen's advice can be very helpful - they have access to legal representatives and sometimes you can book a specific appointment time with a legal professional. Your work situation is just not acceptable, I really hope you are able to resolve some of these problems, it's not just unfair it's not legal - you are entitled to be treated much much better.
Thinking of you, hope Daniel's party goes really well and that you have a few helpers? xxx

My baby coming home in 10 mins i know it daft but i am so excited cant wait to see my little boy